
I just wanted to share the story of my life over the last month and how being organized can make life flow without issue or stress. For most, moving or getting married is enough chaos - independent of each other. Throw in the fact that I am launching a new business and my husband started a new job, and you have the list of the most stressful events you could take on. However, people kept coming up to me and saying you look so relaxed. And I thought, well yes, I am relaxed. I didn’t think about not taking on any one of these opportunities, and I knew we could get everything done.
The story starts back at the end of April, when the hotel we were originally getting married at was not returning calls, had not booked our rooms and would accuse us of being terrible clients. We made the decision then to change the venue for our wedding. Wedding date - May 24th. No problem! We weren’t having a large wedding, and we would just have to change the location for the Justice of the Peace, the photographer (Devin Card - fabulous!), as well as our family’s rooms. Not to mention still choose the menu, get the decor pulled together, and a million other minute details.
At the same time, we had been looking to buy our first condo since last summer. We happened to walk by a building that was a couple of blocks from where we currently lived and there was an open house. We checked it out and it was perfect. Thanks to some great work by our realtor (Claire LeLacheur) we bought our place for $24,000 under asking price. The only catch was that we had to complete for May 29th and move in on May 31st. Well we would still be in Ucluelet for our wedding until May 30th. By this time it was already May 9th. We had a week and a half to get all our mortgage financing completed and legal documents signed, so that we could complete while we were away. Not to mention have everything packed, so that we could move the day after we got back from our honeymoon. Just to add to the fun, we thought, “Why are we paying rent for June when we don’t have to?” So we asked the owner of our rental to post our old place for rent for June 1st in hopes that someone would need it. This meant that we had to keep our place in tip top shape for viewings, so that we could save ourselves $1200 (no half packed boxes and clothes strewn everywhere). Also note, when you run your own business, you don’t get days off and since my husband was just starting a new job, he could not take any vacation days.
The great thing about living with less, is that we didn’t have to go through the purging of the unnecessary. We began packing that day and lined up all our documentation. We lucked out with a long weekend, where we could pull the details together - such as hiring a moving company, getting boxes, booking a cleaner, changing addresses for all the bills, setting up cable, Internet and phone, ensuring there would be hydro, and the list goes on.
We managed to get away with the move prepared, old place rented out and wedding planned. We met with our lawyer the day before we left and signed all the closing documents, so that we could enjoy our time without thinking about whether everything went well or not. Still, we were asked, “Are you going to cut your honeymoon short to come back and move?” Our answer was always a firm “No way.” The wedding at Black Rock Resort went flawlessly. And we enjoyed a week of surfing, hiking and delicious food.
We got home the day before we moved at about 4pm. By 8pm, we were walking along the beach and enjoying some peace and quiet before move day the following morning.
Two days after moving in, we had all our boxes unpacked and the boxes disposed of (actually ready for re-use to avoid the landfill). Everything has a home and is put away. And now we get to relax in these beautiful, Vancouver summer days.
I want to emphasize the fact that anyone can enjoy life with less stress. I am not a miracle maker! I simply am organized.